Energy Is the Commodity Behind Everything We Do

In December, I quietly stepped away from burnout training and public speaking.

There was no formal announcement. No final keynote. No dramatic ending.

Just a quiet decision that it was time to redirect my energy elsewhere.

Five months in, the strangest part has been watching the digital footprint of that work disappear. Eight years of articles, talks, SEO content, and workshop pages have largely faded from the internet, almost as though that chapter of my life never existed. There is something both freeing and quietly grieving in seeing a body of work go that quiet.

Workshop, RL Solutions, 2019

Over those eight years, I had the privilege of speaking to thousands of people across corporate, educational, caregiving, and helping sectors about burnout, stress, recovery, and human energy. Looking back, one core message sat underneath almost everything I taught:

Energy is the commodity behind everything we do.

Not time.

Not motivation.

Not productivity.

ENERGY.

Without it, even the most meaningful life begins to feel heavy. With it, people can withstand incredible levels of responsibility, caregiving, leadership, creativity, service, and challenge.

From the beginning, my work approached burnout differently than much of the traditional conversation happening in the wellness space. I understood the importance of boundaries, rest, mindfulness, and self-care practices, but I felt strongly that burnout was not simply a personal weakness or evidence that someone “cared too much.” I was often frustrated by messaging that implied the solution for helpers was to step back, slow down, take long baths, get pedicures, and somehow naturally recover while the world around them continued demanding.

The people I worked with were not weak people with poor coping skills. They were teachers, social workers, healthcare professionals, foster parents, executives, leaders, parents, caregivers, and deeply compassionate humans carrying enormous loads.

What if the issue was not that helpers cared too much?

What if the issue was that nobody taught them how deeply biology, hormones, cortisol, sleep, stress chemistry, light exposure, inflammation, nutrient depletion, nervous system regulation, and chronic overactivation impact human energy?

I became deeply interested in burnout through a biochemical lens. I wanted people to understand that the body is not separate from performance, emotional regulation, resilience, clarity, patience, motivation, or purpose.

I wanted helpers stronger than what was being asked of them.


Not because I believed in pushing people into the ground, but because I believed many of them were doing deeply meaningful work that mattered. I never wanted good helpers to disappear from helping roles simply because nobody had taught them how to support their bodies properly.

The message was often simple. Respect cortisol and protect sleep. Get morning sunlight, move your body, breathe deeply. Reduce inflammatory load where you can, support your nervous system, take your darn magnesium. Understand your energy patterns and fill your tank intentionally. Then go back out and continue doing the meaningful work you were called to do.

I still believe all of that today.

One of the more humbling things about aging is realizing that wisdom is not only about learning how to generate energy. It is also about becoming more intentional with where you spend it. My focus shifted, and so I made the quiet decision to step back.

I am grateful for every organization, colleague, audience member, client, and supporter who believed in this work over the years.

Thank you to Niagara College, the Ontario Association of Social Workers, Women in Payments, HSBC, Catulpa Community Support Services, Satori Homes, Remax, Credit Valley Conservation, Transport Canada, Foster Parent Society of Ontario, and the many other organizations and teams that invited me into your spaces and trusted me to speak openly about burnout, stress, recovery, and resilience.

Thank you to the individuals who attended workshops, read my writing, shared my content, sent messages, and supported my voice in this space over the years. It mattered deeply to me.

While I may no longer be actively teaching burnout workshops, the work still lives on through my book, Helping Effortlessly: A Book of Healing and Inspiration, which walks readers through my own journey with burnout recovery and the lessons that emerged from it.

Jenn bruer at the book launch of her book, Helping Effortlessly in 2018
Helping Effortlessly book launch, 2018

Even now, I still practice much of what I taught. I still prioritize sunlight, sleep, mindfulness, movement, nutrition, nervous system regulation, and respecting the body’s need for restoration.

I still believe helpers deserve support. I still believe energy matters. I still believe the world needs good people willing to help carry difficult things.

Just sustainably.

Warmly, 

Jenn Bruer

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